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What is Love???? According to me :
Love is such an elusive and terrifying emotion when it finally takes hold of your life. You simply go from Just liking someone’s presence , talking to them and simply just living in the same world as the person you like.instead of just living your life , you want your life to be lived with that person. Once you start realizing all of this then it’s most likely already too late.
It’s such an abrasive and overwhelming feeling to fall in love with someone.when it first enter your heart , you won’t notice it at first. You will only notice the changes and the only thing you can ever seem to think of is that person and why you can’t always be by their side.did you ever feel waiting for someone even if you are not talking to each other.Your eyes are searching for one face in a crowd like today is the day when you again meet.
Today ,when every couple is busy celebrating Valentine’s day , there are some people who just want to see their loved ones faces why love is so complicated.?..Why erasing someone from your life is not as easy as walking out of the door of that person’s home.She was about to step out of the room her feet stuck there for a second when he said in a feeble voice, ‘I thought you were not serious’.
She took a deep breath and said, ” I wish, I didn’t”.And walked away.
Where are you ? are you still listening my heartbeat??? Do u still feel the fragrance of my skin?? I don’t know whether I could see you again or not….why you came into my life? Why you spoiled me by giving your endless memories??
I don’t understand whether you have improvised the way i Express myself or I started communicating like you..all of sudden the sound of rain and earthy scent has broke the silence and she came out of thousands of memories ,unspoken feelings and unanswered questions and entered into the real world of emptiness….this rain has again refreshed the uncountable memories which she had spent with someone…Yes now he is “someone”.. weekend ,rain and a coffee in her hand,listening to the rain hitting the window and unignored memories that’s how she decided to spend her weekend…each drop of rain touching the ground gave her chills.she moved a bit closer to him and leaned her head against his shoulder and there existed only his warmth that touched her soul, which could rip her apart in the moment and put her together again..he no longer existed as a person in her life , he was a summation of her feelings, he was her happiness…she remembered that night when she asked him to sing a song for her and while riding a bike,he started to sing her heart skipped a beat. She was so complete.what better she could ask from life , a sweet kick of emotions and a pure feelings which was being attached to him slowly…
And she thought how good it would be if this all go on forever….
In between her memories she took a sip of coffee and realized that she could not make it, the way he made for her.this realization made her smile with the tears in her eyes.she was not able to understand why he has done this…
She could not forget the day when he admitted ;apart from her, there were a girl in his life and that girl could not live without him also he didn’t have guts to admit all these Infront of that girl.
She experienced a million of emotions that very moment.as she never shared her emotions Infront of him as they never thought of being together throughout their life as they were just spending some time to fill their empty life as there were no commitment asked by anyone as they just liked their company as they were more than friend and less than a couple as they both have had a relationship before as they never decided their future together……….
Because she never wanted to love someone else again.but it happened again,she didn’t understand why these feelings were all coming when they have never thought of being together. After one unsuccessful relationship she didn’t want anymore so she has decided not to be in a serious relationship anymore but again she was feeling the same….why???? She asked herself why I was feeling so bad if he wanted to leave her ..as we have never given commitment to each other as I never wanted to be in love again then why the hell these feelings are coming??? As this was the second Time she was feeling the same pain which she has felt before in her previous relationship.
Tears rolled down her cheek that very moment as she recollected herself and stopped herself by thinking all these meaningless thoughts…. she didn’t want to break their relationship. she didn’t want to be a home breaker because she knew the pain of heart break..she killed her every emotion and replied that she didn’t care whether he would stay or not ….she didn’t love him and if he wanted to leave her he could…by saying this she reassured herself, it’s a part of loving someone that sometime you have to give up your aspirations for them, while other times you have to give them up for your aspirations.
She wondered she could Tell him once “Without you in my arms,I feel an emptiness in my soul. I find myself searching the crowd for your face-I know it’s an impossibility, but I can’t help myself”.
Hello Reader !!!! Have you ever felt unhappy without any reason ?? Are you really satisfied with what you have?? Have you ever felt you got stuck in your past ?? Or you are chasing the wrong things and being pessimistic???? So this blog is for you ….. Feel free and give some time to yourself , talk to yourself and evaluate profit & loss also UpTo which extends dissatisfaction is good???
When I speak about ‘dissatisfied people’ I do not mean those who work hard & strive to achieve their ambitions by developing their intellectual, physical or creative potential. There is nothing wrong with striving for these goals.
A well said statement” striving is living or being alive”. But if you chose to be happy or satisfied only when all of Your dreams come true; it’s wrong.
Satisfaction is not determined by what’s happening around you,but rather what’s happening inside you.
Today’s morning when I spoke to my friend about her problem. she said ,she wake up unhappy every day.before she even gets out of bed,she feels negativity all around. The world simply doesn’t look like a happy place to her.also she mentioned to me,she knows her life is generally pretty good.yet she still asked me,why am I always so unhappy??”I think Many people Wake up with this same question in their heads.every morning they begin their day wondering why things are so bad,why life is not fun & enjoyable why a dark cloud Always seems to hover around them.ofcourse some people feel unhappy & dissatisfied because they are clinically depressed.so be sure & careful about your health issues.
When you are in a state of near constant negativity and dissatisfaction with life, it’s hard to believe that happiness comes from within.how can it come from within when within you feel so unhappy??how can you make yourself feel Happy when you are not?? As my previous blogs we need to make an effort to eliminate the conditions, behaviour and thoughts that Foster dissatisfaction.
You may not realize it,but these little things are making you unhappy let’s look at these for a minute…..
You are bored: when you Don’t have something going on in your life that is fun, engaging or challenging, you feel bored.staying active & around positive people is a great antidote.
You hate your job: just giving yourself permission to look will give you a happiness booster.try to find the solutions.exactly what is making you unhappy.
You are in debt or you compare yourself to others: just beginning the process of paying off your debt will make you feel lighter also stop comparing & start creating yourself as I always say” be unique,be you”.
You hold grudges: anger is an acid that can do more harm than any other things.holding grudges is same as drinking poison & waiting for the other person to die. The person who criticized you is probably having a great time without giving you a second thought,while you are wasting your time sending them death rays with your mind.
You expect the world to be fair with you because you are fair: if so, then you are fooling yourself.
Being pessimistic: you will notice all of the bad in your life. The more you focus on the sunshine,the less the shadows will invade your perspective.
You are lonely: if you find yourself alone on weekends, make an effort to change it.
Stop chasing the wrong things: when you stop chasing the wrong things , you allow the right things to catch you.
You are stuck in your past or want perfect life also you are insecure & not learning: stop being worried or insecure let yourself Free start learning new things you will find that the excitement of learning brings you extra spring.
Spend some quality time alone: as per Martin Buber” solitude is the place of purification”. wether it’s having a coffee under tree or taking a weekend Long trip through mountains.just Try to give yourself some alone time with nature.
You don’t sleep enough: if you are not sleeping well, it’s time to remedy this issue.
You have no spiritual life:
Many studies have shown a correlation between spirituality & increased happiness. I am not only speaking about worshipping but also in support of valuing principles of sensitivity to other living things.according to Clarence Clemons: In the mental calmness of a spiritual life, I have found that the answer to the why in our lives are able to come to you.
Finding Satisfaction Through Meditation: meditation is food for the soul.the rest in meditation is deeper than the deepest Sleep that you can ever have.when the mind becomes free from agitation,is calm & serene & at peace, meditation happens.
- A calm mind
- Good concentration
- Clarity of perception
- Improvement in communication
- An unshakable inner strength
Simple & effective meditation tips to help a beginner:
- Choose a convenient time & place and wear comfortable clothes also keep your cellphone off for that period of time.
- Sit comfortably with a light stomach.start with some warm up exercises, Deep breath.
- Smile and more……
- There is no time limit, start by meditating for 10-15minutes.
If you are one of those who find forgiveness difficult then regular meditation is just the ticket for you.!!.
Beauty tips: hello to all lovelies !!! Meditation makes you feel alive and meditation is one of the most effective solution to all your beauty related problems. It makes you feel younger,active and positive naturally.try it , feel the nature & fragrance of natural beauty.
Here It is very important to clear one thing about satisfaction & dissatisfaction also difference between dissatisfaction and hunger.
I do agree that satisfaction build up your personality but dissatisfaction help you to find the personality in you. Dissatisfaction is good.(if you take it in a positive way)
If you agree with above sentences that means Actually you are satisfied with yourself & what you have achieved, now you just want more sense of achievement, also the periodical success plays a role of encouragement giving you hint that you can do better.that’s why you are always working hard & “feel dissatisfied” so there is nothing wrong with it but you need to know the difference between dissatisfaction & hunger if you will take dissatisfaction negatively you will Start blaming yourself and others.you will put all your efforts in negative directions.
So take a deep breath ,Relax and grateful for what you have achieved because many people are dying to be in the position that you are in. Now , with this sense of achievement and satisfaction push yourself in a right direction and work hard.
At the end: when it comes to achieve your dreams “stay dissatisfied” & achieve your best and it goes…. always score 9.5/10 in every battle of your life because 0.5 is always there for the scope of improvement but internally if you will not feel satisfied, it will never happen.here meditation plays a vital role to understand the difference between these two things.So always maintain the balance between Satisfaction and Dissatisfaction.
Me signing off : you stay healthy, keep calm , stay natural, be beautiful inside and out.Try to focus on what you have instead of what you are Missing and achieve your best.